Thank you dear Master Malia, I am sorry that you also experienced the pain of sudden loss. Sadly since almost 25% of deaths are unexpected, unanticipated deaths and other tragedies befall many people and families. My intention, in sharing what I learned in the process of my father dying in a plane crash and then my husband in a heart attack shortly after, is so that others may be better equipped to manage through those challenging and wrenchingly agonizing times. Blessings and hugs to you and everyone who are undergoing such experiences.